Building confidence in children is essential for their emotional and social growth.
By engaging in activities that promote self-belief and independence, children learn to embrace challenges and grow into resilient individuals.
These fun activities will help your child build confidence while developing valuable life skills. For more ideas on nurturing emotional growth, check out how to teach your child emotional intelligence .
1. Positive affirmations practice 💬
Teaching kids to say affirmations like “I am strong” or “I can do hard things” helps reinforce self-belief and positive thinking.
This activity encourages children to focus on their strengths and abilities, promoting a mindset of confidence and resilience.
Jake was struggling with self-doubt, but after reading "You Are Valuable," he felt empowered and confident. The story helped him overcome his emotional challenge and embrace his worth. 💖✨

2. Role-play confidence scenarios 🎭
Role-playing social situations like introducing oneself or speaking in class helps children build confidence in their social skills.
By practicing different scenarios, they can reduce their fear of new experiences and learn how to navigate real-life situations with more ease.
This activity also improves communication skills and prepares children for future social interactions.
3. Celebrating small wins 🎉
Encouraging kids to acknowledge their achievements, no matter how small, helps build a growth mindset and self-appreciation.
Whether it’s completing a task or learning a new skill, celebrating small victories boosts their self-esteem and motivates them to continue striving toward bigger goals.
This practice teaches kids to value their progress, fostering confidence and a positive outlook.
4. Public speaking games 🎤
Public speaking games are a fun way for children to practice speaking in front of others. Have them share stories, give mini-presentations, or even perform in front of the family.
This activity helps improve communication skills, reduces fear of public speaking, and increases self-assurance.
The more they practice, the more confident they become in their ability to express themselves.
5. Creative arts and self-expression 🎨
Activities like drawing, painting, or crafting boost creativity and self-confidence.
Allowing kids to express their emotions and ideas through art helps them feel more confident in their abilities and encourages self-expression without fear of judgment.
This fosters a sense of accomplishment as they create something unique.
6. Physical challenges and sports ⚽
Engaging in activities like climbing, obstacle courses, or team sports teaches children perseverance and resilience.
These physical challenges encourage them to believe in their abilities and overcome obstacles.
Through sports, kids learn the importance of teamwork, setting goals, and pushing through challenges, all of which contribute to building confidence.
7. Encouraging decision-making 🤔
Allowing kids to make small choices, such as picking their outfit or meal, helps develop a sense of independence and self-trust.
When children have a say in their decisions, they learn to trust their judgment and gain confidence in their ability to make choices.
This empowers them to take on more responsibilities as they grow.
8. Positive mirror talk exercise 🪞
Having kids look in the mirror and say something they love about themselves reinforces positive self-image and self-acceptance.
This simple exercise helps children focus on their strengths and appreciate their unique qualities, boosting their confidence and self-esteem.
Practicing positive self-talk encourages a healthy relationship with their self-worth.
9. Setting and achieving personal goals ✅
Teaching children to set small, achievable goals and track their progress builds confidence in their capabilities and problem-solving skills.
When kids see themselves successfully accomplish their goals, they gain a sense of pride and accomplishment.
This activity encourages them to set new goals and continue growing in confidence.
10. Encouraging acts of kindness ❤️
Encouraging kids to practice acts of kindness, such as giving compliments or helping others, builds self-worth.
Knowing they can make a positive impact on others boosts their confidence and fosters a sense of empowerment.
This activity also teaches empathy, reinforcing the value of kindness in building strong relationships and communities.
11. Practicing gratitude for self-recognition ✨
Having kids write or say three things they’re proud of each day helps build a positive self-view and appreciation for their own efforts.
Practicing gratitude for themselves encourages kids to focus on their strengths and accomplishments, further boosting their confidence and emotional well-being.
This simple daily habit nurtures self-love and self-recognition.
When Sarah and her son Ben read "A Moment of Gratitude" on the Storybook app, they didn’t expect it to have such a profound impact.
Ben had been feeling frustrated about not getting what he wanted, and it was affecting his mood.
After hearing the story, he began to understand how gratitude could shift his focus and bring more positive emotions. It helped him express thanks for the small things and see the world with a new perspective! 🌟

12. Trying new activities and hobbies 🏓
Encouraging kids to explore new hobbies boosts their belief in themselves.
Whether it’s trying a new sport, learning a musical instrument, or picking up a new skill, trying new activities helps build resilience and confidence.
The process of learning something new encourages kids to step out of their comfort zone and develop a growth mindset.


Written By
Entrepreneur mum. I created Storybook: Bedtime Stories the #1 app in over 90 countries. I have been able to help families with the app and through my social media influence. I also created a Facebook group with over 12,000 moms where we support each other.
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